How do you free yourself from the label of Misogyny? Apparently, you gather supporters.. with ransom!
First, turning over a new leaf or at least trying:
Intellectually, I hate using "ist" terms of absolute definition like racist or sexist or misogynist. Although I have used them in the past, they only serve to further alienate and polarize. If we want to create a more complex conversation and actually reach across the isle at all, I think we need to separate actions from total character assassination. So Geraldine Ferraro isn't a racist, but she has made what I would call racist statements.
On to the show...
Dave Sim is a comic book creator who has written the comic book 'Cerebus' since 1977. 'Cerebus' is the story of a medieval aardvark who starts out as a Conan the Barbarian satire and becomes sophisticated, of sorts, achieves the position of Pope and I guess at the end of the series dies.
In between is, from what I've read of it, a large and evolving social satire of great wit and cruelty.
I liked what I read and I have always wanted to read more. However, whenever I mention Sim in most comic circles invariably I hear the term "misogynist" cascade through the conversation, mostly without real explanation or details. (It may be helpful to note that most comic circles are themselves 90% male populated. These are men who have super model in chain mail fantasies, and who would disagree with my post on the misogyny of 'Y The Last Man' conveniently available for free HERE!)
For proof of Sim's misogynism, the story arc called "Jaka's Story" is usually mentioned..... I haven't read anywhere near that far yet.
Douglas Wolk has, and he writes on Cerebus here:
Cerebus, the 6,000-plus-page comic-book epic............ an absolute masterpiece—one of the most ambitious and fully realized narratives of the past century. And its flaws are plentiful, wide, and maddening, and penetrate straight to its core.
...Oh right. About two-thirds of the way into Cerebus, something in its tone abruptly cracks, and the misogynist pus that bubbles up never fully abates after that. (Sim has insisted that he’s not a misogynist, just “not a feminist,” but he’s become rather a single-issue candidate about it; he also claims, for instance, that using s’s rather than s’ for the possessive form of names that end in s is a Marxist-feminist plot. If all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.) It becomes rather tough-going if you like your art to be compatible with your politics, unless you’re one of the eighty-five people on the planet whose gender politics are as far right as Sim’s.
This is why I haven't read more of it, I loved what I read, which mostly was the earlier, sillier stuff, although I loved how the series grows up with the writer and gets deeper and more satirical.
I also read some random issues further on, mostly a brutal rant on the surface of the moon, delivered to Pope Cerebus by a man in a suit with a mustache that I believe is supposed to be God. It's wonderful and demystifying. No real misogyny to mention here, but it is a conversation between a man with a mustache, who may be God and an aardvark who has ascended to Pope.
If you want to find proof of misogyny, you can look at Sim's own writing. It's obvious that this guy does not like 'feminism' and seems to look at it the way angry white men look at affirmative action.. a single-minded cohesive, philosophical institution that's primary purpose is the emasculation of all men and aardvark-centric comic creators.
From Sim's article labeled "Tangent" here:
In the arena of intellectual opinion, when it comes to these hard questions, asking Dave Sim, “Why do you hate women so much?” is irrelevant when my subject is feminism's lack of sound intellectual footing. It is irrelevant whether I hate women. It is irrelevant whether I love women. It is irrelevant whether I consider women in any emotional context whatsoever, just as – when my question is directed toward feminism's lack of sound intellectual footing – it is irrelevant whether I hate ice cream, whether I love ice cream or whether I consider ice cream in any emotional context whatsoever. All That Is Relevant, when the issue at hand is my contention that feminism lacks a sound intellectual foundation, All That Is Relevant, Germane and/or Pertinent is the intellectual foundation – or lack of same – upon which feminism rests.
This article really should be read. Although one could argue that it seems obvious, my first thought isn't really about misogyny. My first thought is that this man is in tremendous pain and in his mind, feminism is one of the causes of that pain.
In his mind, 'feminism' is probably on the periodic table of the chemical elements as a constant, dominant, subversive lie, that is assembled to destroy and falsify true human rights and roles, constructed and unchanging on the molecular level.
Unfortunately, that is how our minds calcify our hurt, defensiveness and entrenchment; in hollow, pompous, rhetorical judgments. If only we had the power to step out of ourselves and practice some humble self judgment, I have to think that an Ebinezer Scrooge moment might crumble away all but the original thoughts which could be the basis of a constructive discussion.
I wouldn't define myself as a feminist, but I would say that 'feminism' has had an influence on me. I think one could argue that feminism is less one ideology and more a collection of many (sometimes apposing) ideas that come from many different perspectives. I would also argue that feminist influences are a part of a larger cannon of philosophy and ethical theories and that they constantly evolve, adapt and inform that canon.
Boxing against a static definable opponent is easy. Easier still, is filtering your correspondence to protect yourself from opposing arguments. When it gets really weird though, is when the same act is used to garner support and build a defense through insincere coercion.
It is obvious, that Mr. Sim is trapped. This label of misogyny must travel with him everywhere he goes. It must make him very angry and jaded. I know it affects his sales as I have most definitely not purchased his books solely out of fear of ruining the enjoyment I gathered from his earlier work. What is he to do?
Apparently, Dave Sim has taken an unusual action to combat his tarnished image. Several blogs (like this one and this one) reported that Mr. Sim has been sending the following form letter in response to any and possibly all inquiries and correspondences, with instructions that responses will only be given to folks who feel like signing their names to a petition of sorts, which states that they do not believe him to be a misogynist.
(click letter to read)
This is weird, bordering on scary. I think Mr. Sim is about to pull a J. D. Salinger and disappear from Google Earth.
Mr. Sim, it's very hard to make it back from where you tread.
Bring a flashlight... you hit the darkside.